Showing posts with label Kind Gestures. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Kind Gestures. Show all posts

Monday, June 8, 2009

Let Her Decide

A common problem in dating and marriages is one person tends to call the shots. If this is the case then let her choose the kind of food you both will eat today, or let her choose the movie that you will see. Often times a partner will sacrifice their own wants or needs to demonstrate their love for the other person, but this sacrifice then turns into the routine and is not acknowledged as it should be. This can lead to a lot of pent up frustration. Sometimes she may just want to enjoy watching "Benny and Joon" rather than "Fast and the Furious 26" and this is where there should be an equilibrium.

More Tips: There doesn't have to be a power struggle in the relationship. If you have to, agree to alternating who chooses what each week. But you must adhere to this, even if your all time favorite movie is screening this weekend you need to be willing to skip it to honor your agreement.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Breakfast is served


Serve her breakfast:
Surprise your special lady with breakfast. It's always best to cook it yourself, but if you're not the cooking type, or you and your wife both know that you can't cook well at all; it might be better that you leave the cooking to someone else. Take her out to a nice little diner for breakfast or pick up something simple like doughnuts, or even see if a restaurant near you does breakfast take out. It's a nice way to get her day going.

More Tips:
If you're afraid of the stove you can also pick up fruit and cut them up into a fruit salad. Adding her favorite flavor of yogurt as the "dressing" will make it just that much more enjoyable!
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Friday, May 22, 2009

Little Love Notes


Little Notes:
Try leaving your wife a nice little note today. Let her know you love her, that you appreciate her, or that you're thinking of her. This is a sure way to make her feel slightly more special, and loved.

You can leave it on the fridge, in her car, in her lunch, on the bed, or any other place that you know she'll see it.

More Tips: To really add to it, attach the note to a single red rose.